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Conducting and fleas

Wednesday, August 17th, 2011

Well it’s been a fun, busy week already – and there is lots more yet to come.

I took choir rehearsal this Monday and conducted the choir for the whole evening as our musical director was on holiday. It was a great experience and enjoyable once I got going but I was quite worried about it beforehand. I’ve sung with choirs for years and have always been involved in music, but I’ve never had to conduct and carefully construct a piece with all voices before. I was mostly worried about identifying faults and picking out where they were coming from and how but that seemed to go quite well and I think we really made some great progress on the pieces we went over. I was working mostly on the dynamics and the small details of the pieces (like observing the rests correctly) with some of our music – and I really hope everyone sings it next week how they were doing at the end of this Monday as I think it sounds a lot better. I’ve also had a lot of positive feedback from the evening so I’m hoping the choir enjoyed my conducting also. I managed to take some recordings of myself to review later and see how things went from an observers point of view – however the battery would only last for 30 minutes of continual recording before powering off. So I only managed to get 2 x 30 min recordings (the first 30 mins of each half), but I hope that is enough to review.

Mits recently seems to have made friends with a hedgehog (we assume) as he came home with some quite large fleas – bigger than regular cat fleas. This wasn’t too bad in itself as it made them easy to spot, identify and even pick some out manually. However we picked up some household sprays, some cat shampoo, and some tablets for him and had a thorough flea removal evening. Mits actually did very well with the bath considering. He obviously didn’t like it, but he trusts us enough that he didn’t put up a massive fight about it, and even seemed to make a little bit of a game about being dried with the towel. The bath alone managed to wash off a few of the fleas and got rid of all the dirt and cases from his fur. The chemicals in the shampoo must have worked quite well too as all the fleas seemed to flee (no pun) to his face, which must have been itchy for him, but allowed us to pick them out very easily. We then gave him some 1 treatment flea tablets designed to kill all fleas on him within 24 hours, and gave him a spray down with some flea killer spray, before going over all the house with a household flea killer. The next morning Mits seemed a heck of a lot cleaner than usual, there were no signs of fleas any more, and he seems a lot more active and less lethargic than he was the day before. He got another dose of the flea tablets the day after to be certain they had all gone, however he seems to be fully in the clear now.

Now I have my birthday celebrations for the rest of this week to look forward to. I’m heading out for drinks with friends tomorrow night for the evening (although probably not making it a late one since its a working day the morning after), then on Friday I’m going for a curry with my team from work. Just a small, quick, quiet get together which will likely be finished by 7:00, then I’m heading up north that evening in convoy with Sarah’s parents who are joining us for the weekend. Followed by a meal out with family on the Saturday evening, and maybe even a small brothers get together on the Sunday if it can be arranged.

I’m hoping to put all my birthday money towards a Full HD 32″ TV for the office to act as a computer monitor, second TV for LAN party nights, and a good alternative television in the house for us or for guests when they come over to stay. However this is dependant upon how much extra I will have to put towards the TV as I still have a summer holiday coming up, a repair job I know needs doing to the car before its MOT in October, and retaxing of the car to be done at the end of the month. – It’s all go :-)

MGF and phone

Friday, July 8th, 2011

Hey everyone,

Well I’m still having fun with my new phone (Samsung Galaxy S II). There are a few little things that I dislike about it, but on the whole I’m happy with the new phone. I’ve also realised that the integration to things like Picasa on this phone are wonderful. I can now add new albums and add photos to albums directly from my phone as I take the pictures, and if I mark the albums as public they instantly appear on the Pictures section of my website (yes – my pictures section is just a skined view of my Picasa account, which you may have noticed anyway if you’ve ever tried to expand the pictures to full size. I tend to upload my pictures as full quality images, so if you ever did want to grab a copy of the pictures or just look at them in a higher resolution you can always click on them and follow them into the Picasa viewer.

I’ve also changed cars now as of 2 days ago. I’m finally back in a sports car again! Woop! Sarah and I were initially looking for an MX5 (mark 2 ideally) however after looking around a few different cars and writing off quite a few adverts just from the pictures and descriptions, we finally realised that the MX5 Mk2 might have been a little ambitious for our budget. I was even getting to the point of sacking the whole idea off altogether, then we decided to expand our search a little to some cars I was looking at with parents when we were last in Yorkshire, and added the MGF to our search. Quite quickly we came across several cars that looked possible. I made a few phone call enquiries with my current insurers and compared their quotes with others on the market (my current insurers actually did a great job with the quotes really and came out the best – Admiral by the way). And everything looked possible. We managed to part exchange our old Ford Focus for more than it was probably worth really, and went to see a few cars. One of them really stood out. We had a good look over it ourselves, inside and out (and under) and couldn’t spot anything significant with the car. It drove well so we got it. We have a really good mechanic who we’ve used for quite a while now and so I took the car over to him to have a look at yesterday. He insited on doing it for free, so I told him there would be a few beers in the car when I dropped it off and I didnt expect them to be there when I came to pick it up – he’s looked after us a lot with any car troubles, often doing many little jobs for free, so I’d like to thank him in some way. It turns out he owns an MGF himself, so knows quite a few of their little oddities. Anyway, when I went to pick the car back up all the news was good. He said he’d be happy with this car (which I think of as a good thing for a mechanic to say), and that there were a couple of things that I could choose to have done if I wanted to, but there was nothing to worry about at all. :-)
I would quite like to get down a pit and do a little bit of re blacking of the underside of the car – there is no significant rust, but there is some surface rust (as you would expect from the underside of a car) which I think would be handy to get off and protected. I’ve also ordered a new gear stick gaiter and a new handbrake gaiter to improve the look of the inside a little – the last one has got quite worn – so a couple of leather ones (surprisingly cheap as well for 100% genuine leather) should make it look that little bit neater and fresher inside :-) .

We’ve also picked up a hard top for the car as well which should give us an extra bit of warmt, protection and waterproofing when winter comes around :-) There are some pictures of the car on the ‘Pictures’ section of my website if you wanted to have a look – and I’m sure I’ll keep adding to that library as I go along :-)

Isaac’s christening, Dad’s move, Car thoughts

Wednesday, June 29th, 2011

Hey everyone,

Well I guess to start I should mention Tosca. We are coping with her loss now and have started looking back on her with fond memories and happiness of the time we had together. We still miss her and I’m sure we always will, especially given how short her time with us really was (2.5 years is quite short really for a cat), but she had such personality and has left such an impression on our lives that we could never forget her and can always tell what she would have done if she was still around to experience life with us. Mits (our other cat) seems to be coping well with the loss. I think that him seeing her towards the end, and seeing her separate from us all means he knows very well what happened to her. From what Sarah tells me about Mits and Tosca’s last few minutes at home he wouldn’t leave her side most of the time she was in the house, but when she went to separate herself and flopped down in the kitchen Mits had stayed behind in the living room (meanwhile Sarah was getting the cat basket out of the loft to rush her to the emergency vets). To be honest – we kept Mits inside for a week or so after the incident just in case it was malicious, and Mits seemed to pine for the outdoors a lot more than anything else. He’s now back to his usual self.

My nephew was Christened this weekend at the church where my brother and his wife (Isaac’s parents) got married. Marcus and Wendy had asked myself and my other brother Damon to be godfathers to Isaac which was very kind of them – and Isaac was as good as gold for the whole ceremony. He managed to fall and bump his head leading to some tears just before the service started, but a few seconds after it began he sat quietly all the way through. We then went to a nearby pub for post-christening celebrations with all the family (both sides of course) which was wonderful. The weather was glorious and everyone was in a great mood. Isaac enjoyed playing in the play area most of the time, and seemed to really enjoy playing on the slide :-) I’ll try to remember to get the videos and pictures off my camera and link to them on the site shortly.

Dad’s company is moving premesis quite soon, which should be nice for them since the old place was a little dark and cold, and a tad awkward to find (although I haven’t seen the new place yet I have to admit :-) ) but to help them with the move Sarah and I are going to be heading up again this weekend in order to help with all the odd jobs that need doing around the new place before they can move in – painting, sorting out the carpets, fitting tables etc.
It’s lead to quite a busy week for us (we only had Tuesday evening free this week – which we also filled with doing the house chores) but it should be good. Plus I like the idea of an industrious weekend, as a lot of weekends seem to just pass us by.

I’ve been briefly toying with the idea of changing my car again and going back to an MX5 (perhaps Mk2 this time) however I’ve been to get a valuation on my current car which only came through at £400, and so I don’t think its going to be something we could necessarily do for a long time – by which point I imagine we may be starting to think about a family and the car would not be doable all together for several more years. I may go and have a look at a few garages and see what arrangements I might be able to come to with regards to using the old car as p/x and taking out finance for the difference between the old and the new car, but I shall really have to see. With the wedding coming up – plus us saving for a house – I don’t want to commit myself to too much of an additional overhead.
I’ll keep you posted

Our beautiful Tosca – RIP

Monday, June 6th, 2011

Unfortunately on Thursday last week one of our two cats was poisoned (hopefully accidentally) with anti-freeze and died of her illnesses within a few hours. I was away at the time so unfortunately Sarah experienced the worst of it, however I made a quick trip back from Wales for a few hours to go to see her to say goodbye the following day.
The vets had done a wonderful job of making her look very peaceful – curled up as if she was asleep, but a little cold, so we tucked her little blanket over her and under her chin before we left.
The rally I was on in Wales at the time kept me quite shielded and separated from everything, but now that I’m back home in Birmingham its a little bit more real and devastating. We are getting by together at home with Mits (the other cat) to keep us company, but (as sad as it may seem) not having children (yet) and with all of my family being quite far away in Yorkshire the cats were a very significant part of our lives.
I take some solace that she was a very loved cat, and wanted for nothing (in fact was probably spoilt a little most of the time) but she grew into a very friendly, kind, cute (and knew how to work it to her advantage) little cat with no aggression in her at all (to her loss at times, as she would never defend her turf, her tactics were to either cuddle something or run away). She feels to have been taken away far too early at only 2.5 years old, but they were a wonderful 2.5 years that we will never forget.
We have decided to have her cremated and keep her ashes in a little box adorned with her photograph so that we can always keep her with us.
I still find myself looking around the house for her, or glancing across the road to where she used to lay under the bushes – but there is no face looking back anymore. We always worried about her with cars really – as she would instantly run across the road to meet us when we got home from work – they both recognise the car now, so spot us coming down the lane. So its quite lucky that we live on a moderately quiet cul-de-sac.
Anyway, I won’t go into a lot more detail in this (what seems to have turned out to be a lament) as it’s still very difficult for me to talk or write much about.

It still hurts me to think about how undeserving (and early) an ending this was to a life that was so innocent and kind. She was a very loving cat – even with strangers, and would never hiss at people or try to scratch, but nearly always smile at them and roll over for them to pet her. She always purred – and had one of the loudest purrs I’ve ever heard - you could hear her from the other side of the living room. Very trusting (possibly too much so), very loving, and very tuned into our emotions. She knew whenever either Sar or I were upset and would go into cuteness overdrive and never leave your side. She grew up as (very much) a daddy’s girl, and would always follow me around and rub up against me. Now daddy’s little girl has gone away and there was nothing I could do to save her. It left me feeling so helpless. She used to come to me when she was worried or afraid of something and I could protect her (or usually joke with her about how lame she would be for running away from a very minor thing) and pick her up and make things better. – Like get her to a vet and cure her when she had cystitis. But I couldn’t do anything to save her from this. I wasn’t even around for her at the end. And that does grate on my memory quite a lot. Luckily Sarah could be with her at the end however, so she didn’t die alone. I got to come back the next evening to go to see her body and say goodbye. I never wanted to leave the room. I didn’t want to leave her there. She doesn’t like being alone – she always likes to be close to us, even when she is in an independant ‘bit of space’ mood she’d always keep within sight of us and would generally sit on the stairs. I can’t think of any cat less deserving of being taken so soon. She deserved a very long, wonderfully happy life for all that she gave to others.

Goodbye Tosca. We’ll love you forever and you will never be forgotten. Thank you for every second we had with you and how much brighter you made our lives. I hope you find peace and happiness.

Daddy's Little Girl

Rest in peace our beautiful, kind, loving, little girl.